Love You

Learn to be comfortable with yourself.  The more comfortable you're with the person you see in the mirror the more of an asset you become to someone else.  The most attractive thing in the world is a woman that I need more than she needs me.   A woman's confidence and how she carries herself is important.  I know that sounds mad generic but through someone's actions its easy to sense their insecurities.  Think about how many times a day you hear somebody say they want a boo, or they need somebody new in their life, but as a individual they're a complete mess.  Build yourself before you look for validation from someone else, as an individual you have to want and expect more from the person in the mirror. We live in a society where people feel validated by relationships, the sense of false confidence that you feel from someone else isn't exactly healthy.  To keep it 100 you can't depend on something that may not always be there for you.  Although you can't enter a relationship thinking that person won't always be there for you, you have to come to the realization that ultimately you come first, if that person doesn't satisfy criteria for you to grow, you simply don't need them.  Nobody on this earth will be there for you, the way you have to be there for yourself; no matter what happens in life you will always be you, therefore you must always have your own back.  As growing individuals we tend to focus more so on the criteria and standards that we hold for the people we get involved with instead of holding ourselves to those standards.  You have to fix you before you can work on fixing someone else, and once you're confident in what're your growth.  I know I emphasized the hell out of the word you in in this post but that's who this post is for.   

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